Love and Fear

Love and Fear come together. If there is love with no reciprocal fear, know that such kind of love is not mature yet.

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1. Fear of Losing the Loved One

The first and foremost fear is the fear of losing the person you love. It’s there inside you, and it never comes out until something bad happens. When the love is mature, the fear of losing a beloved is also there. Even there are people who lack foresight and wisdom that they attach themselves to lifeless objects, let alone humans, and ignore the prime responsibility and the purpose of life!

2. Fear of Ignorance

You had a fight with your loved one. Now you are not talking to each other. Applaud on your modesty that you prepare a beautiful bouquet with an apologising message and send it to that person. You have a fear of ignorance from that person, but still, you take the first step. Now you are waiting for a reply. This waiting time will be the most difficult for you because you are afraid of getting ignored by the person you love. When there is mature love, there is fear of ignorance too.

3. Fear of Getting Hurt

When you love someone, you fear not to get hurt by that person. It shatters your heart when your beloved hurts you. That hurting could be emotional, mental, even physical, and it has a severe effect as compared to getting hurt by a stranger. That’s why wounds inflicted by loved ones are never healed. When the love is mature, the fear of getting hurt will always be there.

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If there is love with no reciprocal fear, know that such kind of love is not mature yet.

- Salman Asif Siddiqui

Now, the affairs of humanity are different from the Divine relationship. For example, when you are distressed because your beloved made a mistake, you tend to ignore the person you love. But there is nothing like ignorance to the Almighty. No matter how many sins you have committed, how many times you disobeyed your Lord, you are just one sincere repentance away from the Divine Mercy. One tiny tear of remorse and all your crimes are washed away.

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Abdul Aziz Khan

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