My One Habit Died, So Did My Place in People’s Hearts

I accept the tradeoff because, at the end of the day, it’s me & my deeds!

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The Loss

I liked my friends before, and I still like them, but there came a gap between us. The loss is the shrinking of my circle of friends. They talk more and think less, and I can say that with a heavy heart. I no longer participate in gossip sessions with my friends because it kills my energy. I know it’s a beneficial loss worth celebrating, but still, I’m worried about those friends, and I try to guide them whenever possible.

The Solution

I still care for my friends, and whenever there is a large get-together, I try to adjust to them, but now it’s barely possible to change myself for them or fake my character.



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Abdul Aziz Khan

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